A while back now, Jenera talked about the times when she feels sexiest. Thinking about when I feel sexiest, I figured I could split things into two categories: the physical side and the mental/emotional side.

When it comes to getting fit and healthy, I think it’s important to find the ways and times you feel sexy. Don’t wait until you’re ‘there’ at your goal; if you don’t care about and appreciate your body as it is, you’re going to have difficulty caring about yourself enough to get fit.

I’m a big girl with big curves. I have big hips (a moderate bum, thankfully) and big boobs. I also have an outfit that makes me feel so sexy when I wear it because it highlights my curves in a good way while minimizing the spots I don’t like so much (*cough*tummy*cough*).

I have a ‘baby doll’ tank top, a lacy bra for underneath, a small, fitted jacket to go over it and a pair of hip-hugging jeans to go with it. However, it’s not just that I like the outfit – it’s the fact that I had to work to get into the jeans and the jacket. Plus, the tank top was a reward to myself for how far I’ve come.

I don’t think you have to be at goal weight before you feel sexy; feeling sexy along the way can help inspire you to keep going to even better, sexier things.

When do you feel sexy?